When My Friend WinsDescription Winning means everything to children and there's nothing wrong with being competitive. Many, however, grow up thinking that winning is what's most important. We want to teach children at a young age that doing their best and being a good friend are more valuable than winning. This story aims to build social and emotional learning (SEL). In this story, Pablo wins the race and Gail feels upset for losing. Let Gail and Pablo show your child